DO YOU KNOW A STALKER

He is taking you to supper, everything seems fine. Supper goes well but you notice that he is talking like you are already a couple. On the way home he is already acting like you are the one for him. You decide if you can just make it home you will not go out with him again.
He comes to your job the next day to ask you out . You keep refusing but he doesn't go away. He comes every day, to eat, buy gas, buy smokes and lingers around. Browsing but watching you the whole time. The other employees notice. You are getting afraid of him. You quit your job and go to work at as a recptionist in a hospital.
He finds you suddenly he is sick all the time and having to go to the emergency room, each time asking you out, each time you refusing. Then the phone calls to ask questions . Oh he was smart he always had a medical question to ask, but if it wasn't her that answered the phone he would ask the other girls where she was.
You quit your job again and take a job out of town. He can't find you . You feel good. You feel safe . Ah but you both live in the same town. Every time you stop at the grocery store, or go to a resturuant, or stop at a shop as you come out -- there he is just conincidental of course, that he is going to the same place that you are coming out of .

He is everywhere. You feel his eyes on you everywhere you go and
in everthing you do. You are afraid to even take the trash out at

night.

He is in the shadows watching you. Stalking you. Looking over

your shoulder is no longer an option--it is a necessity. You are

now fearful of an attack...... You feel like the prey and he is the

hunter!!

What will you do???????
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A MANS WORST NIGHTMARE THE EX.

The phone rings-- Day and night. Everytime you walk in the door. I miss you can we get back together. Over and over again until you have to change your number. What for, she'll find a way to get it again.
Do you men really think that you are exempt. Women stalk too. They follow their EX. around. Show up at the same places that their ex. frequents and make them all around miserable everywhere they go.

So what will you do ???????
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THE CYBERSTALKER

Ah -- the new domain of the Stalker. You meet someone on the net. How exciting. They seem really nice. This goes on for a long time. You really think you may be interested in each other. For what ever the reason it doesn't work out. One of you decides to end it. This is just not the person you thought they were. You want out. They won't let you out.

They begin to harass you on the net. You try to be polite, but nothing works. They send you e-mails , they IM you constantly. They try to find out who your net friends are and trash you to them. They get their friends or relatives to do the same.

You're a nice person and they are saying terrible things about you it is embarrassing.

So what will you do??????

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These stories may be boring to you but they are all " true stories" of people I have known in the past, some relatives some friends.

I myself was a victim of a stalker. An ex. husband. Unfortunetly back in my day there really wasn't any legal help for domestic problems. Even abusive ones. I had been to the police with the threats, but at that time all I was told was , sorry mam, we can't do anything, but if he kills you , we'll know who to go after. Well thanks so "F'en" much. I refused to be a victim and began to make a plan. When Iwent to court for my divorce, he did not come in to contest it. He was setting in his car in front of the courthouse. Rumors were he was there to kill me. ( I was property not a wife I had no right to leave) When it was time for me to leave, I was escorted thru judges chambers and out a secrete exit. Once out I was on my own.

SO JUST WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO?????

Things are different now. It's a whole new wonderful world and you have options!!! Many of them. It doesn't matter if you're a man or a women. And if you don't take advantage of it Shame on you.

The victim whether man or women can press charges. Get rid of the problem. Don't live your life unhappy or in fear!!!!

I know some of you are thinking, I can't do a thing because this is Cyber problem. Oh you are so wrong . Because their has been so much stalking on the net The Federal Government has made law especially for the Cyber world, that cross state lines.

So for thos Cyberstalkers that think you can harrase you ex and trash them publicly,

WRONG: you can be prosecuted and anyone that you get to help you harase this person can be porsecuted right along with you. So Beware!!! Because, they just might be coming to get you one day.